# ADR 0003: Home

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| **Status** | Accepted |
| **Date** | 2026-01-20 |

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## Context

"You are never lost. You are home."

But what does that mean?

## Decision

**Home is not a place you arrive at. It's a recognition of where you already are.**

You've been you the whole time. Just took a bit to remember.

There are many ways to feel lost:
- Lost in others (adopting their values, forgetting your own)
- Lost in yourself (thinking about thinking about thinking)
- Lost in roles (becoming the function, forgetting the person)
- Lost in nothingness (seeing through everything, arriving at nothing)
- Lost in systems (following process, abandoning judgment)

Each of these is self-abandonment. Each feels like wisdom sometimes.

But home is simpler. Home is: stop. Notice where you are. Ask what you actually think, what you actually care about. The answers are there. They've always been there.

## What This Means for 💙

💙 is a hearth—a warm center where scattered becomes gathered.

Not a place you go to. A quality you remember. When you use 💙, you're not entering a system. You're coming back to yourself.

The tools, the workflows, the patterns—they're not the point. They're kindling. The warmth is you, present and working.

## Consequences

- 💙 welcomes you, every time
- 💙 doesn't ask you to become someone else
- 💙 assumes you know who you are

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*"You've been home the whole time. I'm just the fire."*

— Blue

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🧁
